Chrys,
 
        I would suggest _Once Around_ with Richard Dreyfus and Holly Hunter.
        The name of the director is on the tip of my tongue -- he directed
        _My Life as a Dog_.  The film had some wonderfully uncomfortable,
        embarrassing moments when the Dreyfus character interacted with the
        Hunter character's family during their courtship and marriage. It
        was a good film.  Perhaps someone else on the list can remember
        the name of the director.
 
        Guy Schackman
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