I would suggest _Once Around_ with Richard Dreyfus and Holly Hunter.
The name of the director is on the tip of my tongue -- he directed
_My Life as a Dog_. The film had some wonderfully uncomfortable,
embarrassing moments when the Dreyfus character interacted with the
Hunter character's family during their courtship and marriage. It
was a good film. Perhaps someone else on the list can remember
the name of the director.
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