Yes, you are quite right.  The "in your face" approach never
works well.  I should spend more time "ducking" and less time "punching"
back.  And, as has been said before, I should refuse to "have a battle of
wits with an unarmed person."
 
        Your common sense post has been much appreciated.
 
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