I mentioned this to Jeremy and thought others might be interested. The reason I did not immediately spot WHAT A WAY TO GO in the film I was trying to identify is that Bombay moviemakers are too conservative to make a film about a widow. Would not make money either. So the heroine does not marry these guys (except the last one) and of course they don't die. The plot is rewritten around business. (And there's no bull-milking scene.) --Carol